꧁ 𝓒𝓱𝓪𝓲𝓻, 𝓗𝓸𝓾𝓼𝓮, 𝓒𝓪𝓻, 𝓦𝓸𝓶𝓪𝓷: 𝓦𝓱𝓪𝓽 𝓦𝓲𝓵𝓵 𝓨𝓸𝓾 𝓒𝓱𝓸𝓸𝓼𝓮 𝓣𝓸𝓭𝓪𝔂? ꧂
All Religions Agree on One Thing: Don’t Turn Women Into Prostitutes. But You, Dear Sir, You Don’t Seem to Care, Do You?
You, the man with that massive cross swinging proudly around your neck, swaggering into a brothel as if you own the place. You spend the night with one of those girls, and she’s left wondering: Why on earth do you keep punching her in the face with your cross every single time you have sex? If you believe so fiercely in that shiny symbol, then what exactly are you doing here?
Let me refresh your memory — just a little refresher of what those holy books you brandish so loudly actually say about this matter. After that, we’ll dig a bit deeper into your own little problem, shall we?
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Qur’an
Surah Al-Isra (17:32):
“And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way.”
A clear and stern warning against zina—anything from fornication to prostitution. So no excuses.
Surah An-Nur (24:33):
”…And let those who find no means to marry keep chaste until Allah enriches them from His bounty…”
Basically saying, “If you can’t marry, keep it clean.” No loopholes for illicit affairs or, heaven forbid, prostitution.
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Torah
Leviticus 19:29:
“Do not degrade your daughter by making her a prostitute, or the land will turn to prostitution and be filled with wickedness.”
A warning, clear as day — prostitution degrades not only women but society itself.
Deuteronomy 23:17-18:
“No Israelite man or woman is to become a shrine prostitute… You must not bring the earnings of a prostitute or of a dog into the house of the Lord your God.”
Ritual prostitution? Absolutely forbidden. Profiting from such filth? Don’t even think about it.
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Talmud
Mostly talks ethics and repentance when it comes to prostitution:
Yoma 85b: The tale of Rahab, a prostitute who repents and somehow ends up in King David’s lineage — proof redemption is possible, even for fallen angels.
The message: protect women, avoid exploitation, and always leave room for repentance.
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Bible (New Testament)
1 Corinthians 6:18-20:
“Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body… You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore, honor God with your bodies.”
An unambiguous call to avoid sexual sin, prostitution included.
John 8:3-11:
The famous story of the woman caught in adultery — Jesus says, “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.”
Yes, forgiveness and compassion, but don’t mistake that for approval of the act itself.
But, dear sir, if you don’t know your own religion, perhaps it’s time to learn the laws of your own country. Because, you see, things like data protection laws exist—not just in Poland with RODO, but all over: Germany has its Datenschutz, America its various privacy laws, Israel too. Simply put, you must not copy-paste photos of people, or share their phone numbers without permission. Sounds reasonable, right?
But what do you do?
Exactly the opposite. Charming.
And it seems, dear chap, that it’s not only your religion you’re ignoring—oh no—the law is also giving you a headache. But wait, you’re probably blissfully unaware of this, aren’t you? Because your beloved sites—Garçonnière and the like—save your IP address. Yes, even when you sneakily decide to remove the condom and “enjoy” without protection, the lovely lady remembers your number. And so do the servers. It’s really quite easy to track you down these days, especially since you have to register your SIM card—even prepaid ones aren’t exempt.
And you think Telegram chats are safe?
Oh, honey, your digital footprints are all over the place. So what can we do? First, stop the hypocrisy. It helps no one — certainly not you, and certainly not her. Secondly, let’s call it by its proper name: you are engaged in human trafficking. Proud of it? You have your little brotherhood slang: Schwaga, brothers, bros — whatever it is from my previous articles on the topic.
But, pray, did you ever stop crying about how terrible her breasts were? Or how awful the “service” was? She refused to blow you without a condom, did she? There’s more behind the scenes, dear sir. Abuse. Trauma. Women who end up with Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD) after meeting men like you. No sugar-coating here. Just truth.
Research confirms the heavy mental toll prostitution takes on women:
• “Prevalence of PTSD and CPTSD Among Women in Prostitution” — Trauma, Violence, & Abuse Journal
• “Mental Health Consequences of Prostitution: A Systematic Review” — BMC Psychiatry
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Now, about men whining on every portal that women are “too expensive” or “not respectful.” Oh really? Why should anyone respect you? You call her on her free day — just breathing heavily on the phone, no words. She knows. She knows if you’re masturbating or just so exhausted you can barely climb the stairs to your flat. Then you slam the phone down. Or if she dares call back, you attack her with aggression.
And if it’s not about you? Then it’s the usual: you spot a lovely woman on TikTok and, statistically speaking, you’re more likely to write her some revolting comment like, “If slavery were legal, I’d buy you.” Charming, really. She thinks, “I’ll never use TikTok again. I’m freaked out.”
In these days, most women have shared one crucial tip: never open your door 15 minutes after you arrive home to “check the place” — always have two locks on your door, darling. And, naturally, you should buy your man shoes and leave them outside the apartment — because, well, you’re making sure she’s no safer anywhere.
Then you send her unsolicited dick pics on Instagram. And she wonders, Why don’t I block him? But you keep sending hundreds of those indecent photos worldwide because you think it’s “cool” to ask how much she charges for sex — even if she’s made it perfectly clear she’s not interested. So long as she doesn’t have a boyfriend plastered all over her social media, you feel free to pounce.
Online male aggression, unsolicited sexual messages, and harassment are real, documented problems:
• “Online Sexual Harassment and Its Psychological Impact” — Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking
• “Male Online Harassment and Entitlement: An Empirical Study” — Journal of Interpersonal Violence
• “Unsolicited Sexual Images: The Impact on Women’s Mental Health” — Psychology of Women Quarterly
So what do we do? Stop the hypocrisy. Call out the abuse. Know the laws. Know the trauma. And for goodness’ sake, men, stop being the biggest threat in women’s digital and real lives.
Because dear men, if you don’t understand this by now, perhaps it’s time to admit: the problem is not “her,” it’s you.
She’s a prostitute. If she’s not lucky enough to work somewhere with protections or rights, she’s probably hustling in Poland, Thailand, or somewhere else where the system’s stacked against her. You expect her to send you a photo on command — one click, one shot, like she’s your personal Instagram model. You expect her to speak your language, even if she doesn’t want to or simply can’t. But you never expect yourself to behave.
What if she comes up with this utterly bonkers idea to get out of prostitution? What if women everywhere wake up one morning, collectively say, “I’m done”, and refuse to deal with men like you any longer?
Let’s look at that, shall we?
In Germany, there’s a powerful movement called “Raus aus der Prostitution!” (Get Out of Prostitution!) — a growing call for real change and support for women escaping this brutal industry. Similar themes echo in the “Neue Realität” (New Reality) discussions across Europe, focusing on alternatives and the serious challenges women face when leaving.
Now, statistics tell us how tough it is for women to escape prostitution:
• Studies show only about 5-10% of women in prostitution successfully exit permanently due to lack of support, poverty, addiction, or coercion (UNODC Report on Trafficking and Prostitution).
• The European Institute for Gender Equality highlights how limited resources and stigma block reintegration efforts (EIGE Report on Exit and Prevention).
And what if — just imagine — all prostitutes in Europe or Thailand collectively said “fuck you” and refused to work?
Economically, this would send shockwaves:
• The global sex industry is estimated at $99 billion a year (Global Sex Industry Report, 2021).
• In countries heavily dependent on sex tourism, like Thailand, such a collective refusal would cause massive economic disruption and force governments to confront the root issues of exploitation and human trafficking.
Socially? Men like you — deprived of easy access to sex workers — might finally face the stark reality of your entitlement and abuse. And no amount of crying on forums about “respect” or “cost” will change that.
In truth, the power lies with her. And when she walks away, the whole rotten system begins to crumble.
And what about you, Mr. “I deserve respect”?
Men like you spend hours whining on forums, lamenting how women charge “too much” or “aren’t respectful.” But wait — why should she respect you?
You call her on her day off, just to breathe heavily down the phone, expecting her to interpret your mood. You close the call with a slam like a toddler denied candy. Then she tries calling you back, and you bombard her with aggressive messages.
Or, if that’s not you, you’re the type scrolling TikTok, dropping “charming” comments like:
“If slavery was legal, I’d buy you.”
Your “jokes” scare her into never wanting to open TikTok again.
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The cold hard truth for women these days:
• Many women have learned to never turn the lights on for at least 15 minutes after arriving home. Minimum two locks on the door? Absolutely necessary. Put men shoes outside your flat, so no one will know that you are home allone — a clear message: no unwelcome guests here.
• You wonder why she won’t order pizza? Because she’s making sure she’s not another statistic of harassment.
• You send her unsolicited dick pics on Instagram or ask her about Price for sex? — You sendet proudly hundreds of them worldwide — because you think it’s “cool” to ask women for sex even when she’s clearly not interested, as long as she doesn’t have a boyfriend plastered all over social media.
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Want proof? Here’s what research says about online harassment and male entitlement:
• According to the Cyberbullying Research Center, over 60% of women online have experienced sexual harassment or unwanted advances (Cyberbullying Research Center).
• The Pew Research Center reports that 41% of women have faced online abuse, including threats and harassment (Pew Research Center: Online Harassment).
• Studies in the Journal of Interpersonal Violence highlight how repeated exposure to online sexual harassment increases anxiety, depression, and PTSD symptoms (Journal of Interpersonal Violence, 2020).
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So, here’s the bottom line:
You can whine about respect and price all you want, but when your behaviour looks like this — calling her just to breathe heavily, bombarding her with aggression, sending unsolicited pics, and acting entitled to her body — respect isn’t coming your way.
She’s fighting hard every day, often dealing with CPTSD, abuse, and systemic neglect — and men like you make it worse. The real question is: when will you own your role in this and change?
But let’s not hold our breath. History, as Monique and countless other women can attest, shows that while the methods of oppression evolve, the underlying attitudes remain stubbornly persistent.
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So, what choices remain for her?
Stay and endure the abuse, or attempt the Herculean task of leaving, only to face societal judgment and limited support. And for you? The worst-case scenario is her embracing feminism and seeking liberation from your grasp.
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Organizations Supporting Women Exiting Prostitution:
1. La Strada International
A European NGO platform combatting human trafficking, offering support and advocacy for trafficked persons.
2. Pink Door Berlin
Provides individual counseling and support for women in prostitution or facing sexual exploitation in Berlin.
3. New Friends New Life
Based in Dallas, Texas, this organization helps women leave the sex industry through comprehensive support services.
4. Organization for Prostitution Survivors (OPS)
A survivor-led organization in Seattle, Washington, offering support and advocacy for those affected by commercial sexual exploitation.
5. SISTERS e.V.
A German nonprofit founded by women with experience in prostitution, aiming to help others exit the industry.
6. Treasures
A Los Angeles-based organization providing a supportive community and resources for women in the sex industry.
7. Ruhama
An Irish NGO offering support to women affected by prostitution and sex trafficking.
8. Refuge for Women
Provides long-term care for women escaping human trafficking and sexual exploitation in the United States.
9. Hookers for Jesus
A faith-based organization offering support and safe housing for women leaving the sex industry.
10. x:talk Project
A London-based network offering free English classes and support for migrant sex workers.
11. English Collective of Prostitutes
A UK-based group advocating for the decriminalization of prostitution and support for sex workers.
English Collective of Prostitutes
12. Manchester Action on Street Health (MASH)
Provides support and health services to female sex workers in Manchester, UK.
13. National Ugly Mugs (NUM)
A UK charity that helps sex workers report dangerous individuals and access support services.
Centre for Women’s Rights (Centrum Praw Kobiet)
Offers legal and psychological help to women, with branches in Wrocław, Łódź, and Gdańsk.
14. Caritas Poland
Provides social welfare and humanitarian relief, including support for women in crisis situations.
15. Autonomy Foundation (Fundacja Autonomia)
Aims to create a society capable of stopping discrimination and violence based on gender and other factors.
16. Stowarzyszenie PoMOC
Offers assistance to victims of human trafficking in Poland.
17.Polish Women’s Lobby
Advocates for women’s rights and supports individuals in prostitution through various initiatives and testimonies.
But as we already know, darling, it’s not quite as simple as throwing down a rope and expecting her to climb up in heels and PTSD.
First hurdle? The economic system—because somehow, we’ve decided to base survival on invoices, rent, and Wi-Fi bills, rather than human dignity.
Second? Most so-called “exit spaces” are about as trauma-informed as a tax office. They’re built to hand out leaflets and say “God bless,” not to hold women while they shake from the sixth panic attack in three days.
Third? Getting a woman out of prostitution costs. It’s not just tea and a pep talk. It’s trauma therapy, rent subsidies, skills training, and a hell of a lot of patience. And, well, most people won’t even pay for decent toilet paper, let alone a woman’s recovery.
Let’s not romanticise it. Many of these women—how we already said—don’t have diplomas from polite little schools, or a family savings account, or even the option to “just quit.” What they do have is grit. Not the shiny motivational-poster type. The real one. The kind forged in long nights, bad clients, and the kind of betrayal that sticks in your bones.
So where does the real exit lie?
In her self-discipline.
In her refusal to swallow another grain of your bullshit.
In her decision that survival doesn’t mean silence.
And now, a final question—one that tends to make insecure men sweat through their gym shirts:
Can a prostitute be a feminist?
Oh, absolutely.
In fact, she might become the most terrifying kind of feminist.
The kind who has seen your world from the inside, survived it, and decided: Never again.
She will read about witches not as victims, but as ancestors. She will learn about factory girls, suffragettes, and the fire in the Triangle Shirtwaist building. She will see how you’ve changed your methods of oppression but never your obsession with control.
And when she knows—when she really knows—she will leave your world behind.
And she will never let you touch her again.
Now, let’s leave this here—not with hope (that word is tired)—but with clarity:
If you’re a man who needs to be begged for respect, you’re not worth it.
If you’re a woman stuck in hell, know this: there are ways out. Not easy ones. Not fast ones. But real ones. And the more you learn, the stronger your fire gets.
The world doesn’t fear women who cry.
It fears the ones who understand.
And if you ever do get out, darling—don’t look back unless it’s to write it all down and burn the system in ink.
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