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The Good Girl Is A Lie

I am the Earth. I am the water. I am the fire and the air.

Everything you want, everything you desire.

And yet, somehow, you still think you can walk over me like dirt.

But tell me—what happens when you burn the field?

Men love to say they build empires. But empires built on the backs of women are not made of stone. They are made of ash.

And yet, for centuries, we were told to stay quiet, stay soft, stay manageable.

Because a woman who doesn’t complain is worthy of love.

Complete and utter bullshit.

The Good Girl Manual:

How To Be A Perfectly Oppressed Woman

I was a good girl.

I smiled, I adjusted, I stayed quiet.

Not because I wanted to. But because I was taught to.

I was taught that if I just pleased them enough, I would be safe.

That if I just didn’t argue, didn’t complain, didn’t demand, I would be loved.

And if I wasn’t? That was my fault, wasn’t it?

Because the Good Girl Rulebook is clear:

• If you are hurt, you must have provoked it.

• If you are used, you must have offered too much.

• If you are unloved, you must be unworthy.

This is how entire generations of women were conditioned into silence.

But here’s the trick—it was never about being good.

It was about being easy to control.

Patriarchy’s Favorite Targets:

Girls, Not Boys

If the world wanted good people, they would train boys to be kind.

Instead, they train girls to be obedient.

Because in patriarchal cultures, girls are not children. They are future women.

Which means they are raised to serve.

This is why:

📌 Girls are more likely to be taught housework than boys.

📌 Girls are sexualized earlier than boys.

📌 Girls are punished for “bad attitudes” while boys are “just being boys.”

📌 Girls are told to be careful. Boys are rarely told not to harm.

And the statistics prove it.

📌 90% of human trafficking victims are women and girls.

📌 1 in 3 women worldwide has experienced sexual violence.

📌 In cultures where “purity” is valued, child marriages skyrocket.

Because in a patriarchal world, a woman’s value is not who she is. It’s what she gives.

And if she stops giving? She is discarded.

When Women Are Too Powerful, They Become Whores

Men love to say history is full of great men.

That’s because whenever a woman was great, they didn’t call her powerful. They called her a whore.

If a man is ambitious, he’s a leader.

If a woman is ambitious, she’s a schemer, a seductress, a witch.

And if they can’t control her? They don’t erase her.

They ruin her.

📜 Cleopatra: The Queen Who Became A Seductress

Cleopatra VII—one of the most intelligent rulers in history.

• Spoke nine languages.

• Trained in politics, philosophy, and war strategy.

• Single-handedly kept Egypt independent from Rome for decades.

But what do we hear about Cleopatra?

• That she seduced men.

• That she bathed in donkey’s milk.

• That she died because of a snake bite.

Why? Because a woman ruling an empire through intellect was too much.

So men rewrote her as a lover, not a leader.

Because the idea of a woman outsmarting the Roman Empire was too terrifying.

📜 Catherine The Great: The Woman Who “Slept With A Horse”

Catherine the Great—the most powerful Tsarina in Russian history.

• Expanded the Russian Empire.

• Introduced major reforms in law, education, and economy.

• Modernized Russia into a European powerhouse.

So what did men say?

• That she was insatiable.

• That she had dozens of lovers.

• That she died having sex with a horse.

This obscene lie was started by 18th-century French pamphleteers—men who hated a woman ruling so well.

It wasn’t enough that she had lovers (like every male ruler in history).

No. They had to turn her into an animal.

📜 Joan of Arc: The Witch They Had to Burn

Joan of Arc—a warrior, a revolutionary, a legend.

• Won battles men said were impossible.

• Led an army at 17.

• Saved France.

But men couldn’t have that.

• If she was powerful, she had to be a witch.

• If she heard voices, they must be the devil’s.

• If she won battles, it must have been a trick.

So they put her on trial, declared her a fraud, a heretic, and a liar.

And then they burned her alive.

For what?

For being the bravest warrior in France.

And Now?

For centuries, they burned the field.

And now they wonder why nothing grows.

They silenced us, erased us, rewrote our history.

And now, they wonder why we no longer believe their lies.

But here’s the thing—they never expected us to start writing back.

We don’t beg.

We don’t ask.

We remember.

Because when the field stops growing, men have only one choice left:

To kneel and start planting—or starve.